Dream

Last night I had a Brandon dream. They’re so rare, so infrequent. The exact events of the dream are foggy at this point, but what I remember is Brandon was suddenly back, alive, breathing, and talking. It was like he went away on a long trip somewhere far, far away and had no access or …

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When on earth do I bring up the widowed thing?

When I pictured what my life was going to look like, being a military spouse was never something I thought about when contemplating the various scenarios that could be my life. Why would I? I never wanted to leave the town that was home, I was in a long-term relationship with a wonderful guy I …

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